Very seldom do affair relationships last forever, and if your relationship began as an affair and both of you are wondering if you should leave your partners and try to make your relationship permanent, you ought to think about the implications of getting so deeply involved with another person. It’s very difficult to maintain a relationship when it commenced with the two of you being unfaithful and telling lies. For starters you both will have a real problem having faith in each other. After all, both of you know that you’ve both been unfaithful, how could you ever be certain that you won’t be unfaithful to each other? Even if both of you can live with that, there are still several other issues to think about.

Anyway for starters, are there any children to consider? This is really the most difficult situation to deal with in affair relationships. Nobody wants to see their children get hurt and it is just about impossible for the children to ever get close to the one who caused their parents to split up, because generally, kids are deeply attached to both of their parents. Probably they will not blame the parent who cheated, but will blame the new partner.

Even if children are not involved, you must consider that this affair is the same as any other: to start with it’s romantic and exciting, but how long will it stay that way? Your current relationship most likely began that way also, and look what happened to that.

One of the main reasons that both of you felt so good in the beginning was because you didn’t have any commitments. The daily grind is nearly always the obstacle that eventually gets in between couples and causes hardships. You have got to be sensible enough to understand that the exact same thing will happen to your affair eventually. Your new-found lover will not look so attractive in a couple of years, just like your present partner.

Even when all these things have been considered, there is still a question you need to ask yourself, are you still in love with your present partner? If you can truthfully say that you really don’t have any feelings for your present partner, not including the thrills and excitement that always diminishes with time in any marriage, then regardless of the hurt it will cause, you may be doing them a service by moving out.

It would be best for everybody involved if you can possibly avoid telling anybody that the cause of the separation is your infidelity. That is something that you should keep hidden. Just tell your present partner that the marriage is finished and be as compassionate as you can.

Generally affair relationships that cause marriage break ups, never seem to last for very long, however if you both have determined that you do have an intense love for one another, despite the fact that you got together in the wrong way, and that your marriages were finished anyway, you may as well live together. Simply keep the fact that you both got together while you were still married, to yourselves. There is no cause to publicize the fact.

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