When your relationship has broken down and you have lost your partner, it is difficult to know how you can possibly get your ex lover to come back to you. You need to deal with your emotional state before you do anything else and this will also give your ex some time to consider their position, now that he or she has left you.This will be your first step in your attempt to get your ex lover back.

While you are recovering from the emotional shock of being dumped you should not have any contact with your ex. When he or she has not heard from you for a while, your ex lover may wonder what you are doing and, if there are any feelings left for you, might even be worried about you. This is good because when he or she begins to miss you they are then most susceptible to your approach.

The next part of your plan to get your ex lover back is to give him or her a call and, during the course of the conversation, invite your ex to have dinner with you and let it be known that it is just a friendly gesture and not an attempt to restore your relationship. If he or she agrees and the dinner engagement turns out to be an enjoyable event for you both, then your ex lover would have taken home some new thoughts about you, your past relationship, and how he or she feels about the situation. Your ex will be pleased that you kept your promises and did not try to coax he or she into getting back together with you.

Give your ex lover a bit of time to think about your recent outing before calling him or her. Just keep yourself occupied, and your mind on other things for a couple of days. In the mean time your ex may call you, in which case you will be sure that you have made a favorable impression on him or her. If your ex doesn’t call you after a few days, then by all means give him or her a call just to ask how they are and if they enjoyed your date.

Make sure that you keep the converstion low key, be casual and if your ex sounds responsive you might suggest another date where your ex can choose the time and place. If he or she agrees then you should buy a small gift or a bunch of flowers as a present for when you meet for your next date.

Sometime during this date you should steer the conversation around to your past relationship by asking him or her if they are really happy now that you are apart. You could reflect on some of your short comings and let your ex know that you are aware of the mistakes that you have made that might have lead to the break up. Talk about some of the things that your ex finds most interesting and make your conversation revolve about your ex partner and their needs.

When the outing is drawing to a close allow your ex to open up any discussion about a reconciliation, if they do well and good and if they don’t then just make arrangements for another date. This time you might suggest a weekend away someplace, like a holiday destination or a resort, where you can both relax and have a good time together.

By using this approach when you are trying to get your ex lover back, you will certainly have a great chance of being successful, and with a little bit of luck your partner will be the one to ask you about getting back together.

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